How Do I Know If I Need Mental Health Support?
Mental Health Self-Assessment Guide.
Mental Health Self-Assessment Guide
How Do I Know If I Need Mental Health Support?
If you're asking yourself whether you might benefit from therapy, this guide can help you identify common mental health concerns and determine your next steps. As a licensed therapist specializing in trauma, somatic therapy, and innovative treatment approaches, I help clients navigate a wide range of mental health challenges.
Am I Experiencing Anxiety?
Do any of these thoughts or feelings sound familiar?
Worry and Rumination
- Do you worry that something bad will happen, even without clear reason?
- Do you think about the same problems repeatedly and feel unable to stop?
- Do you find yourself ruminating excessively about past or future events?
Physical Symptoms (Your Body's Stress Response)
- Do you experience restlessness, tiredness, or muscle tension?
- Are you unable to relax and feel constantly stressed?
- Do you have heart palpitations, dry mouth, throat tightness, or shortness of breath?
- Do you get nauseous or have digestive issues when anxious?
- Do you suffer from tension headaches along with other anxiety symptoms?
Hypervigilance - Always "On Guard"
- Do you feel constantly on edge with interrupted sleep and difficulty concentrating?
- Are you more irritable and impatient with others than usual?
- Do you feel like you're always "bracing" or expecting something bad to happen?
Could I Be Struggling With Depression?
Common signs that suggest depression:
Emotional Changes
- Do you feel persistently sad or depressed?
- Have you lost interest in activities you once enjoyed?
- Do you feel hopeless or experience despair?
- Are you withdrawing from others and life's activities?
Physical and Sleep Changes
- Has your appetite changed significantly in recent weeks or months?
- Do you have periods where you can't sleep, or do you sleep excessively without wanting to get out of bed?
- Do you feel unable to relax or sit quietly?
- Do you lack energy and motivation for daily tasks?
Thought Patterns
- Do you engage in negative self-talk?
- Do you have many negative thoughts about yourself?
- Do you have a history of depression dating back to your teens?
- Is there a family history of depression?
Am I Having Trouble With Life Transitions and Adjustments?
Major life changes can trigger mental health concerns:
Recent Life Changes
- Are you currently taking medication for depression, anxiety, ADHD, or substance abuse?
- Have you recently moved and are finding it difficult to adjust?
- Did you recently start or graduate from college and feel overwhelmed?
- Are you struggling after the end of a relationship?
- Have you experienced a significant life event that's hard to process?
- Do you simply need someone to talk through what's happening in your life?
Loss of Support Network
- Did you lose your support system due to a geographic move?
- Are you having difficulty finding new, meaningful connections?
- Do you feel isolated in your current environment?
Do I Have Relationship Problems?
Signs of relationship difficulties:
Current Relationship Conflicts
- Are you involved in multiple relationships that cause emotional conflict?
- Do you and your partner argue frequently or lack communication?
- Has separation been discussed or threatened?
- Have you experienced verbal or physical abuse in your relationship?
- Do you and your partner live increasingly separate lives?
Pattern Recognition
- Do you have a history of broken relationships due to trust issues or poor partner choices?
- Do you frequently feel lonely and isolated?
- Do you struggle with being alone?
- Do you maintain emotional distance from family, coworkers, and neighbors?
- Are you desperately using dating apps for social connection or hookups?
- Do you have unwarranted mistrust that leads to loneliness?
Am I Dealing With Shame and Low Self-Worth?
Self-conscious feelings that impact daily life:
Social and Emotional Withdrawal
- Are you withdrawing from important social relationships?
- Do you often feel hopeless and worthless?
- Do you experience persistent guilt?
Self-Perception Issues
- Do you have a negative view of yourself?
- Are you easily embarrassed or frequently feel humiliated?
- Do you often feel shame or like you're "not good enough"?
- Do you constantly compare yourself to others and feel you fall short?
Could I Be Experiencing Grief and Loss?
Unresolved grief can significantly impact mental health:
Loss-Related Symptoms
- Have you experienced losses and been unable to resolve your grief?
- Do your thoughts constantly focus on the loss, affecting your concentration?
- Are you confused about your future after a significant loss?
- Are you having difficulty accepting the death of a loved one?
- Do you feel bitterness and anger related to relationship loss?
- Are you unable to feel grief even when you think you should?
Questions About Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity?
It's normal to have questions about identity:
Sexual Orientation Concerns
- Do you have uncertainty about your sexual orientation?
- Are you gay, bisexual, or questioning but not open about it?
- Do you worry about or try to suppress same-sex attractions?
- Has recent experimentation raised questions about your orientation?
- Would you like to learn more about LGBTQ+ communities?
Gender Identity Questions
- Do you worry about or feel anxious about your gender identity?
- Do you experience gender dysphoria?
- Are you unable to express your gender in the way you desire?
Shame and Secrecy
- Do you experience guilt and shame around sexual feelings and desires?
- Do you work hard to keep attractions hidden from others?
- Do these feelings make it difficult to feel okay about yourself?
Do I Have Attention and Focus Issues (ADHD)?
Common ADHD symptoms in adults:
Attention Difficulties
- Do you fail to pay close attention to details, especially with uninteresting tasks?
- Do you have difficulty sustaining attention to tasks or activities?
- Are you often accused of not listening when spoken to directly?
- Do you struggle to follow through on instructions and finish tasks?
Hyperactivity and Impulsivity
- Can't you sit still for any length of time, feeling restless and fidgety?
- Are you described as always "on the go" or "driven by a motor"?
- Do you have problems engaging in leisure activities quietly?
- Do you talk excessively or interrupt others frequently?
- Do you often lose items necessary for tasks?
Life Impact
- Did you have behavioral problems, impulsivity, or concentration issues in school?
- Were you diagnosed with ADHD in childhood?
- Have work relationships suffered due to your inability to function appropriately?
- Are you easily distracted with attention drawn away from tasks?
Am I Experiencing Trauma Symptoms?
Trauma can manifest in various ways:
- Have you experienced a trauma-related event?
- Do you have nightmares and flashbacks about experiences in your life?
- Do you experience the anxiety and depression symptoms listed above following a traumatic event?
As a trauma specialist trained in somatic therapy, I understand how trauma affects both mind and body, and I use evidence-based approaches to help with healing.
Are You Experiencing Hallucinations or Delusions?
These symptoms require immediate professional attention:
- Do you see things that aren't there?
- Do you hear things that aren't there?
- Do you question whether your thoughts are accurate or based in reality?
If you're experiencing these symptoms, please contact a mental health professional immediately or visit your nearest emergency room.
How Long Have You Been Struggling?
Duration helps determine treatment approach:
- Have you had most of these issues for less than six months?
- Have you been experiencing these concerns for more than six months?
- Have these problems been present for more than two years?
What Should I Do Next?
Getting help is easier than you think:
Immediate Support
- If you're having thoughts of hurting yourself or others, call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room
- For crisis support: Text HOME to 741741 for the Crisis Text Line
Taking the First Step
- Contact us at contact@districtcp.com
- We accept most CareFirst BCBS plans and work with national care providers in the DMV area
- Many insurance plans cover mental health treatment under out of network benefits - check with your insurance plan
- Telehealth sessions available for your convenience
- Initial consultations help determine the best treatment approach for your specific needs
Specialties Include
- Individual psychotherapy for anxiety, depression, and trauma
- Somatic therapy (mind-body approaches)
- ADHD assessment and treatment
- LGBTQ+ affirming therapy
- Relationship counseling
- Grief and loss counseling
- Psychedelic-assisted therapy (where legally available)
Why Choose Joseph LaFleur and Associates?
As a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with specialized training in trauma and somatic therapy, I bring both traditional therapeutic approaches and innovative treatments to help you heal. My practice integrates evidence-based methods with a deep understanding of how trauma affects the whole person - mind, body, and spirit.
Professional Credentials
- Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW)
- Certified Trauma Specialist
- Somatic Therapy Training
- Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy Certification
Ready to Take the First Step?
Remember: Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. You don't have to face these challenges alone.
Contact Information
Joseph LaFleur, MSW, LICSW
contact@districtcp.com 202.641.5335 DistrictCounselingPsychotherapy.comEvening and weekend appointments may be available. Telehealth sessions offered for your convenience.

