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Mental Health Self-Assessment Guide | Joseph LaFleur, LICSW

Mental Health Self-Assessment Guide

Joseph LaFleur, LICSW - Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker
Psychotherapist | Trauma Specialist | Somatic Therapy | Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy

How Do I Know If I Need Mental Health Support?

If you're asking yourself whether you might benefit from therapy, this guide can help you identify common mental health concerns and determine your next steps. As a licensed therapist specializing in trauma, somatic therapy, and innovative treatment approaches, I help clients navigate a wide range of mental health challenges.

Am I Experiencing Anxiety?

Do any of these thoughts or feelings sound familiar?

Worry and Rumination

  • Do you worry that something bad will happen, even without clear reason?
  • Do you think about the same problems repeatedly and feel unable to stop?
  • Do you find yourself ruminating excessively about past or future events?

Physical Symptoms (Your Body's Stress Response)

  • Do you experience restlessness, tiredness, or muscle tension?
  • Are you unable to relax and feel constantly stressed?
  • Do you have heart palpitations, dry mouth, throat tightness, or shortness of breath?
  • Do you get nauseous or have digestive issues when anxious?
  • Do you suffer from tension headaches along with other anxiety symptoms?

Hypervigilance - Always "On Guard"

  • Do you feel constantly on edge with interrupted sleep and difficulty concentrating?
  • Are you more irritable and impatient with others than usual?
  • Do you feel like you're always "bracing" or expecting something bad to happen?

Could I Be Struggling With Depression?

Common signs that suggest depression:

Emotional Changes

  • Do you feel persistently sad or depressed?
  • Have you lost interest in activities you once enjoyed?
  • Do you feel hopeless or experience despair?
  • Are you withdrawing from others and life's activities?

Physical and Sleep Changes

  • Has your appetite changed significantly in recent weeks or months?
  • Do you have periods where you can't sleep, or do you sleep excessively without wanting to get out of bed?
  • Do you feel unable to relax or sit quietly?
  • Do you lack energy and motivation for daily tasks?

Thought Patterns

  • Do you engage in negative self-talk?
  • Do you have many negative thoughts about yourself?
  • Do you have a history of depression dating back to your teens?
  • Is there a family history of depression?

Am I Having Trouble With Life Transitions and Adjustments?

Major life changes can trigger mental health concerns:

Recent Life Changes

  • Are you currently taking medication for depression, anxiety, ADHD, or substance abuse?
  • Have you recently moved and are finding it difficult to adjust?
  • Did you recently start or graduate from college and feel overwhelmed?
  • Are you struggling after the end of a relationship?
  • Have you experienced a significant life event that's hard to process?
  • Do you simply need someone to talk through what's happening in your life?

Loss of Support Network

  • Did you lose your support system due to a geographic move?
  • Are you having difficulty finding new, meaningful connections?
  • Do you feel isolated in your current environment?

Do I Have Relationship Problems?

Signs of relationship difficulties:

Current Relationship Conflicts

  • Are you involved in multiple relationships that cause emotional conflict?
  • Do you and your partner argue frequently or lack communication?
  • Has separation been discussed or threatened?
  • Have you experienced verbal or physical abuse in your relationship?
  • Do you and your partner live increasingly separate lives?

Pattern Recognition

  • Do you have a history of broken relationships due to trust issues or poor partner choices?
  • Do you frequently feel lonely and isolated?
  • Do you struggle with being alone?
  • Do you maintain emotional distance from family, coworkers, and neighbors?
  • Are you desperately using dating apps for social connection or hookups?
  • Do you have unwarranted mistrust that leads to loneliness?

Am I Dealing With Shame and Low Self-Worth?

Self-conscious feelings that impact daily life:

Social and Emotional Withdrawal

  • Are you withdrawing from important social relationships?
  • Do you often feel hopeless and worthless?
  • Do you experience persistent guilt?

Self-Perception Issues

  • Do you have a negative view of yourself?
  • Are you easily embarrassed or frequently feel humiliated?
  • Do you often feel shame or like you're "not good enough"?
  • Do you constantly compare yourself to others and feel you fall short?

Could I Be Experiencing Grief and Loss?

Unresolved grief can significantly impact mental health:

Loss-Related Symptoms

  • Have you experienced losses and been unable to resolve your grief?
  • Do your thoughts constantly focus on the loss, affecting your concentration?
  • Are you confused about your future after a significant loss?
  • Are you having difficulty accepting the death of a loved one?
  • Do you feel bitterness and anger related to relationship loss?
  • Are you unable to feel grief even when you think you should?

Questions About Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity?

It's normal to have questions about identity:

Sexual Orientation Concerns

  • Do you have uncertainty about your sexual orientation?
  • Are you gay, bisexual, or questioning but not open about it?
  • Do you worry about or try to suppress same-sex attractions?
  • Has recent experimentation raised questions about your orientation?
  • Would you like to learn more about LGBTQ+ communities?

Gender Identity Questions

  • Do you worry about or feel anxious about your gender identity?
  • Do you experience gender dysphoria?
  • Are you unable to express your gender in the way you desire?

Shame and Secrecy

  • Do you experience guilt and shame around sexual feelings and desires?
  • Do you work hard to keep attractions hidden from others?
  • Do these feelings make it difficult to feel okay about yourself?

Do I Have Attention and Focus Issues (ADHD)?

Common ADHD symptoms in adults:

Attention Difficulties

  • Do you fail to pay close attention to details, especially with uninteresting tasks?
  • Do you have difficulty sustaining attention to tasks or activities?
  • Are you often accused of not listening when spoken to directly?
  • Do you struggle to follow through on instructions and finish tasks?

Hyperactivity and Impulsivity

  • Can't you sit still for any length of time, feeling restless and fidgety?
  • Are you described as always "on the go" or "driven by a motor"?
  • Do you have problems engaging in leisure activities quietly?
  • Do you talk excessively or interrupt others frequently?
  • Do you often lose items necessary for tasks?

Life Impact

  • Did you have behavioral problems, impulsivity, or concentration issues in school?
  • Were you diagnosed with ADHD in childhood?
  • Have work relationships suffered due to your inability to function appropriately?
  • Are you easily distracted with attention drawn away from tasks?

Am I Experiencing Trauma Symptoms?

Trauma can manifest in various ways:

  • Have you experienced a trauma-related event?
  • Do you have nightmares and flashbacks about experiences in your life?
  • Do you experience the anxiety and depression symptoms listed above following a traumatic event?

As a trauma specialist trained in somatic therapy, I understand how trauma affects both mind and body, and I use evidence-based approaches to help with healing.

Are You Experiencing Hallucinations or Delusions?

These symptoms require immediate professional attention:

  • Do you see things that aren't there?
  • Do you hear things that aren't there?
  • Do you question whether your thoughts are accurate or based in reality?

If you're experiencing these symptoms, please contact a mental health professional immediately or visit your nearest emergency room.

How Long Have You Been Struggling?

Duration helps determine treatment approach:

  • Have you had most of these issues for less than six months?
  • Have you been experiencing these concerns for more than six months?
  • Have these problems been present for more than two years?

What Should I Do Next?

Getting help is easier than you think:

Immediate Support

  • If you're having thoughts of hurting yourself or others, call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room
  • For crisis support: Text HOME to 741741 for the Crisis Text Line

Taking the First Step

  • Contact us at contact@districtcp.com
  • We accept most CareFirst BCBS plans and work with national care providers in the DMV area
  • Many insurance plans cover mental health treatment under out of network benefits - check with your insurance plan
  • Telehealth sessions available for your convenience
  • Initial consultations help determine the best treatment approach for your specific needs

Specialties Include

  • Individual psychotherapy for anxiety, depression, and trauma
  • Somatic therapy (mind-body approaches)
  • ADHD assessment and treatment
  • LGBTQ+ affirming therapy
  • Relationship counseling
  • Grief and loss counseling
  • Psychedelic-assisted therapy (where legally available)

Why Choose Joseph LaFleur and Associates?

As a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with specialized training in trauma and somatic therapy, I bring both traditional therapeutic approaches and innovative treatments to help you heal. My practice integrates evidence-based methods with a deep understanding of how trauma affects the whole person - mind, body, and spirit.

Professional Credentials

  • Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW)
  • Certified Trauma Specialist
  • Somatic Therapy Training
  • Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy Certification

Ready to Take the First Step?

Remember: Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. You don't have to face these challenges alone.

Contact Information

Joseph LaFleur, MSW, LICSW

contact@districtcp.com 202.641.5335 DistrictCounselingPsychotherapy.com

Evening and weekend appointments may be available. Telehealth sessions offered for your convenience.